if you love her then you will find some way to get to her. love is meant to be.
if you like her then eventually you'll get over her. just remember there are other fish in the sea.

i'm a 10th grader/sophmore and people call me the Counselor for relationships(also magic fingers but this isn't about massage therapy). 75% of the people I get together/help stay together after graduation. yes it has been proven. basically let her know that your at least interested in band and you would like to learn(if you want to). maybe she'll even teach you .
stay after one of her band practices and wait for her. that should give you some time to talk.

She invited me to her birthday party yesterday, but I didn't go, because I don't love her half as much as I fear the wrath of my father *shudder* , and he probably wouldn;t let me go.

as for waiting after practise, I've a little brother I have to take to school.

P.S: I was like the only boy she invited

If you were the only boy invited, she must like you.

If you didn't go, you better think of a good excuse.

If she invited you, you shoulda gone.

no matter wat.

Also, redt, love is not meant to be. unfortunately. I know so from personal experience. lol.

I noticed you only used the world "Probably" in relation to whether or not your father would have let you go.

So you didn't even ask.

If you're not even going to try, your failure is guaranteed. You may as well close this topic.

maybe I'm playing hard to get

anyway, I probably wouldn't be able to go, coz I don't know where she lives, I've got a math exam tomorrow, I haven't got a present to give her.

I'm thinking if I give her a ring at school tomorrow, that would help...

There's that word probably again
I think your best bet is to try to spend as much time with her as you can, and when you two get close enough, well, you can figure out the rest .

I'm going to bust my ass trying to be a part of her activities on the last day of school.

and I'm going to give her 10 JD's , which is considered a lot, for her birthday.

P.S: I broke up with the last one, because she went to america for the holidays, and I told her I couldn't wait till she came back.

You broke up with your last girlfriend because she went on a holiday trip and you couldn't wait for her? Either I read that wrong or that's a dumb reason to break up with someone. Of course if the girl you like is more attractive than your ex than I'd do the same (yes I know I'm a horrible guy(by the way I'm single )).

no the last one is prettier, but I feel like I'm cheating on her, because I can't stop thinking about the other one. and she deserves better than that.

So either call me a bloody two timer, or a gentleman, I don't know.

I was stuck in a very similar situation except both of us were heading to Ireland. I broke up with her on the way there. It didn't go to well but we're friends now(it took a whole year).

Really?

I live in Ireland.

Whereabouts?

this is not the time nor the place

btw: patchy lives in ireland

Wonder why.

I used to have a girl stalking me because she loved me so much. She moved on to another guy who just moved here from across the country.

As for me, I have a girlfreind. Wouldn't give he r up for the world.

Because my last girlfriend is having family issues with her mother(divorced parents) and she doesn't want to take me down with her. Now that I think about it it's kinda sweet, well seeing how I now understand why she broke up with me.

Getting advice from other people for your relationship problems is not always the best thing to do. Their judgment can be biased or blurred since they do no know the significant other was well as you do. Believe me, it does not always work.

I know, but some of them know what they're talking about.