Started talking to a girl two weeks ago.

She had a boyfriend, i ask if they are still together she says she just doesn't care anymore.

I tell her i am too atracted to her to be just friends.

I ask her out for friday, she has to babysit; Saturday too.

Monday night, i ask her why is she talking to me 4 hours a day. She replies you're not the only one i talk to this much. ''If i'm not talking 2 u i'm talking 2 my boyfriend.'' (all of a sudden she has a b/f now, she aint have one when i was feelin on her ass).

I tell her ima let her go to sleep now (it's 12:30 she been yawnin 4 the last hour - usually goes to sleep 10-12)

I wake up Tue @ 11 expecting not to hear from her for a few days

She is on caller ID @ 9

I call her back, and let the phone ring 4 a minuite (literally the counter went to a min) and get no answer.

5 mins later her best friend calls, asks me to a movie.

I realize this is a trap and games are being played, so i play back (say yes).

Her friend hangs up on me, i call her back in an hour 2 get address.

On callback, her friend asks me if i think she (girl im talking 2) will be mad.

I say why would she, she has a b/f. She not worried about me. Her friend hangs up with me.

I get a call 4rm the girl who asks me whats up. I say y u called me so early, she say i seemed upset last night. I said no u were sleepy. I talk about her b/f and tell her i had made a date with her friend does she care? She says she doesn't and gets pissed and hangs up.

I get a series of calls over the next hour from both of them basically being pissed @ me and yelling and ****.

I call her the next day, she still mad @ me.

I call her friday 2 ask if we were still going 2 the movies. She said her mom said it was okay. I say i'll pick u up @ 8. She say no, cause u tried 2 talk 2 my friend.

@ this point she knows i never had any intention of taking her friend out, and just said so to make her mad.

She's been pretty cold to me over the phone last few days, and will hang up with me after checking her other line to ''clean up'' or ''take a shower.'' I'm sure it is to talk to her b/f.

I will see her today after i work out. my plan was if i get a negative response 4rm her then i should just leave her alone. What do you think?

I think if you still want to be involved after this much drama, then it's time to come out of the closet. 9_9

My advice; learn to speak and type proper English so that other people in an English-speaking online community are able to understand what you're trying to say.

run away run away!

you obviously can't like that girl very much if you're willing to go out with her friend on the drop of a hat. So it was probably a test. what do you care if she talks to her old bf? Don't be so controlling, it'll end up icky.

Also, DON'T bring up old bfs with girls... it's not a happy thing to do. The girl obviously likes you, and that's why she got pissed when you made a date with her friend.

Of course she'd want to talk to someone else if all you talk about is her old bf or you going out with someone else.

you're overreacting. calm down, breath deeply, and think.
I think you should 1. cancel date with her friend (if possible) 2. If you get a negative response, well, apologize, and say that you didn't realize watever, etc. etc. 3. work on grammar and typing proper engrish like Jiggly says.



geez... guys these days....

mebbe i'm just speshul.

Seconded~

On topic, I'd like to note this was a conspiracy... Like everything else these days. It's probably some joke that's wound up in your face... Like everything else these days.

How to fix it? Get a conspiracy back on them. Get their friends against them. It's not revenge - it's equalising the cicumstances.

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And buy a dictionary and get a haircut.

Personally, I came to the conclusion that if you happen to be going to a pokemon website forum to ask for dating advice, you clearly don't have any friends in real life anyway.

Or he's trying to be all drama llama on us, which I suspect is true in addition to the "having no friends" part

well
what i wanna know is...why post on a forum asking for /personal advice/ when you probably don't know any of us here? D:
i mean, like. 1. we don't know what's completely going on. we dont know /you/ or /them/. 2. we kinda don't care. :< if you gotta ask for help ask someone you know real-life / a good friend. dont just post it on a forum.

Umm... how old are you? This sounds like high school ****, and the girl is just looking for attention to validate needs unfulfilled; that much is obvious. You can take her seriously or play around with her. The latter I wouldn't suggest, but either way, I don't see a serious relationship evolving from this situation.

This is why people need to use god and family.

You see, it is said that if a person makes three successful shirachs (matches), they are automatically granted access to heaven. So, you can usually trust them to find you someone.

That's basically what I'm going to do eventually (when I finish school) - let trustworthy friends set up a good set of matches. To avoid these messes.



Another place you went wrong is that you played the game back. You can't do that. I may sound very oldfashioned, but try and ask yourself "would the code of chivalry accept this behavior, no matter who started it"?

Hmm...took the words right out of my mouth. Worthwhile relationships don't exactly suffer from such ridiculous conflicts as this.

do you know that 30% of Americans can't speak proper English? I'd say you were one of them. unless your not American, of course.

secondly, just leave both girls alone, I always try to avoid any kind of drama. you need a nice christian girl to date.